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    Life Tactics: Never Show Anger to Get Your Way

    avatarBy vinja26/02/20166 Comments2 Mins Read
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    Taipei 101 Tower, Taiwan /// Vinjatek
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    Life Tactics is a series of compact posts about my methods, tricks and hacks for everyday life, professional trades and mentality.

    “You can’t change the world but you can change the world around you.” -John Cain

    Never Show Anger to Get Your Way //

    Anger, like love and hunger is both an emotional and physical response that we can’t help manifesting.

    There are countless triggers for this and one of them is when we can’t get our way or what we want in any given interpersonal situation. So we let it get the better of ourselves and aggressively retaliate by using that spike of energy as a weapon to force our will on to others.

    Showing anger, the more perceivable the anger, may seem like power but it’s actually a sign of weakness or at the least, a momentary loss of self-control.

    “Speak when you are angry – and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.” -Laurence J. Peter

    I’m not saying don’t get angry, just don’t show it. Because we can’t help getting angry. What matters is how we handle ourselves in those situations.

    Let’s face it, showing anger does get results. But so does pointing a gun at someone’s face or holding a pregnant lady hostage to get what you want.

    Using the show of anger as a tool to get what you want works with children and less strong-minded individuals because of fear. It also works in places of business because they don’t want you to cause a scene.

    Now think about that, do you want to be the person that intimidates children and weaker people than yourself as well as being a public nuisance?

    As effective anger may seem, there’s a better way:

    Exude dominance. Show strength without force. Be stern but kind. Never show anger. Keeping your cool when anger is expected is a powerful tool, especially to the wise, intelligent and people of influence.

    “Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to ourselves than the injury that provokes it.” -Lucius Annaeus Seneca

    Being feared can get you some things but being respected can get you anything, sans the negatives.

    Life Tactics:
    Never Show Anger to Get Your Way

    [The featured photo was taken from the Taipei 101 Tower Skyscraper in Taiwan.]

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      6 Comments

      1. avatar
        Lori Zabel on 26/02/2016 4:04 PM

        Well said. Anger does work obviously but at high costs to both you and the person your angry at. Its just not wirth it.

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      2. avatar
        Plaken Wander on 26/02/2016 4:13 PM

        Excellent advice! but 1 exception, i think its okay to get furious with your spouse once in a while, to vent and start over.

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        Robert SythRZythRZ on 26/02/2016 9:35 PM

        “Better to be loved than feared”!

        Reply
      4. avatar
        Specialist Zero on 03/03/2016 2:41 PM

        So why force someone to do something when you can get them to want to do something.

        Reply
      5. avatar
        Lf Zeke on 06/03/2016 11:12 AM

        Like this new series, can’t wait for more.

        Reply
      6. avatar
        Julian on 01/04/2017 8:58 AM

        Great concept,still working on the application!

        Reply

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